Victim, Perpetrator? There's Hope

Pain and Pretending, a great book by Rich Buhler, Rich is a Guy, who pastor's and counsels and specializes in Pain, he has talked millions of people about Pain issues in their life such as Abuse, Neglect, and other issues and throughout his years has become an "Enlightened Guru" with dealing with pain.

I have actually read this book quite a few times, He talks about how there is Pain inside of some people, and this pain can cause people to do some pretty queer things. For instance, one man in the book's son dies, and after a few years without grieving, or even acknowledging his son's death, ends up stealing money from his company (which is collapsed) and pouring it into a bank account in some foreign country, and going a.w.o.l., you later come to find out this man was a victim of abuse.

If a spark has been ignited with this information I highly recommend you do not violate your conscious and check this book out!